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I am so sorry you lost your friend. A long hug to you. dawn – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> > I lost a friend this past Boxing day. But only found out about it 3 > > days later. > > Please send prayers, light candles, send good thoughts to the friends > > and family of my friend Ian. > > my heart is breaking and I’m in and out of rational behavior.
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I’m just wondering how you’re doing KCat? Maggie
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In article <19140-3FF5B095-…@storefull-3218.bay.webtv.net>, JD…@webtv.net wrote >I’m just wondering how you’re doing KCat?
Your thoughts etc are still needed. — Andy [Chair, N E Lupus Group] See http://www.northeastlupus.org.uk for more!
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Sorry for your loss, KCat. I’ll be thinking good thoughts. Nina
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(((((((KC)))))))) and prayers for your friend and his family. Wende "Andy" <a…@kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk> wrote in message
news:neOgpXDh$E9$EwJp@kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> In article <8ds6vvsbc3gbeie2nabhbcvlhenmsqk…@4ax.com>, kcat > <kcattxf…@sbcglobal.net> wrote > >I hadn’t posted about this here yet. > I’m sorry – life always seems to hand you the shitty end of the stick. > [[[[[KC]]]]] > — > Andy [Chair, N E Lupus Group] > See http://www.northeastlupus.org.uk for more!
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Gentle hugs to you Kcat, and prayers for you and Ian’s loved ones. I wish I could send along something for your heart. Wes – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -kcat <kcattxf…@sbcglobal.net> wrote in message <news:8ds6vvsbc3gbeie2nabhbcvlhenmsqkks1@4ax.com>… > I hadn’t posted about this here yet. > i’m still not sure how much to say. > I lost a friend this past Boxing day. But only found out about it 3 > days later. > Please send prayers, light candles, send good thoughts to the friends > and family of my friend Ian. > my heart is breaking and I’m in and out of rational behavior.
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On Fri, 2 Jan 2004 19:15:23 +0000, Andy <a…@kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk> wrote: >In article <19140-3FF5B095-…@storefull-3218.bay.webtv.net>, >JD…@webtv.net wrote >>I’m just wondering how you’re doing KCat? >Your thoughts etc are still needed.
yes much. tough going here in my little part of the world. we’re alive and well – just going through a lot of turmoil.
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In article <idaevv4d10nnl2v99eu09b5e253hoom…@4ax.com>, kcat <kcattxf…@sbcglobal.net> wrote [ >tough going here in my little part of the world. >we're alive and well - just going through a lot of turmoil.
Always remember, when the going gets tough the toughs go shopping 
-- Andy [Chair, N E Lupus Group] See http://www.northeastlupus.org.uk for more!
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On Sat, 3 Jan 2004 21:51:21 +0000, Andy <a…@kitzbuhel.demon.co.uk> wrote: >In article <idaevv4d10nnl2v99eu09b5e253hoom…@4ax.com>, kcat ><kcattxf…@sbcglobal.net> wrote >[ >>tough going here in my little part of the world. >>we're alive and well - just going through a lot of turmoil. >Always remember, when the going gets tough the toughs go shopping
I have to tell an Ian story - on the 23rd we determined we would not be able to see family for Christmas and this was breaking my heart. I whimpered to Ian about it and joked that since I'd have to give up Christmas plans I had an overwhelming urge to buy a new pen even though I haven't bought a pen for myself in about 3 or 4 months. I thought it silly of course and a short-term solution. He told me his doc said that this was good therapy and by all means I should do just that. So... in his memory and honor - I will probably do just that!
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In article <0e0hvvo0fimqi3k05nc2dqnn600caef...@4ax.com>, kcat <kcattxf...@sbcglobal.net> wrote [ >So... in his memory and honor - I will probably do just that!
Go for it, Sis - and make sure it's elegant enough to match what he'd have recommended. -- Andy [Chair, N E Lupus Group] See http://www.northeastlupus.org.uk for more!
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I hadn’t posted about this here yet. i’m still not sure how much to say. I lost a friend this past Boxing day. But only found out about it 3 days later. Please send prayers, light candles, send good thoughts to the friends and family of my friend Ian. my heart is breaking and I’m in and out of rational behavior.
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Prayers and Hugs Kat. I am so sorry for your loss. Cindy "kcat" <kcattxf…@sbcglobal.net> wrote in message
news:8ds6vvsbc3gbeie2nabhbcvlhenmsqkks1@4ax.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I hadn’t posted about this here yet. > i’m still not sure how much to say. > I lost a friend this past Boxing day. But only found out about it 3 > days later. > Please send prayers, light candles, send good thoughts to the friends > and family of my friend Ian. > my heart is breaking and I’m in and out of rational behavior.
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I’m sorry for your loss, Kcat. And for theirs. I’ll remember you & Ians family in my prayers. Maggie
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Sending good vibes to you and Ian’s family. I, too, lost a friend (and neighbor) on Boxing Day. I didn’t know it until I returned from the in-law’s house and noticed all the cars across the street. (We knew death was eminent.) The funeral had already taken place and I felt bad that we did not attend. Some friends are closer than others. When I lost a good friend years ago I grieved with all my heart. But because we were friends somehow it’s not supposed to hurt? Often friends are closer to us than family and it hurts so much to lose them. Bev "kcat" <kcattxf…@sbcglobal.net> wrote in message
news:8ds6vvsbc3gbeie2nabhbcvlhenmsqkks1@4ax.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I hadn’t posted about this here yet. > i’m still not sure how much to say. > I lost a friend this past Boxing day. But only found out about it 3 > days later. > Please send prayers, light candles, send good thoughts to the friends > and family of my friend Ian. > my heart is breaking and I’m in and out of rational behavior.
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Beverley wrote: > Sending good vibes to you and Ian’s family. I, too, lost a friend (and > neighbor) on Boxing Day. I didn’t know it until I returned from the in-law’s > house and noticed all the cars across the street. (We knew death was > eminent.) The funeral had already taken place and I felt bad that we did not > attend. > Some friends are closer than others. When I lost a good friend years ago I > grieved with all my heart. But because we were friends somehow it’s not > supposed to hurt? Often friends are closer to us than family and it hurts so > much to lose them.
We choose our friends, we inherit family. Sometimes friends are closer to us than family. My sympathies are with you and KC (and their families too) Hugs to you both J
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Bev and KC, I am sorry for your losses. My family also lost a friend the day before Christmas, and I am grieving for a very dear friend who will not see much of 2004 I’m afraid. It is hard anytime, but seems especially sad at the holidays. May you both find comfort in the days ahead. Charlotte On Wed, 31 Dec 2003 19:04:58 -0600, kcat <kcattxf…@sbcglobal.net> wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->I hadn’t posted about this here yet. >i’m still not sure how much to say. >I lost a friend this past Boxing day. But only found out about it 3 >days later. >Please send prayers, light candles, send good thoughts to the friends >and family of my friend Ian. >my heart is breaking and I’m in and out of rational behavior.
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kcat wrote: > I hadn’t posted about this here yet. > i’m still not sure how much to say. > I lost a friend this past Boxing day. But only found out about it 3 > days later. > Please send prayers, light candles, send good thoughts to the friends > and family of my friend Ian. > my heart is breaking and I’m in and out of rational behavior.
(((((((((((KC))))))))))) I’m so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you both were very close. Prayers for Ian and all his loved ones. Hugs for you, -Sharon — "Don’t make me come down there…" -God
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I am so sorry to hear that Kcat. Thoughts and prayers are with you all today. BJ-Sk. Canada "kcat" <kcattxf…@sbcglobal.net> wrote in message
news:8ds6vvsbc3gbeie2nabhbcvlhenmsqkks1@4ax.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I hadn’t posted about this here yet. > i’m still not sure how much to say. > I lost a friend this past Boxing day. But only found out about it 3 > days later. > Please send prayers, light candles, send good thoughts to the friends > and family of my friend Ian. > my heart is breaking and I’m in and out of rational behavior.
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In article <8ds6vvsbc3gbeie2nabhbcvlhenmsqk…@4ax.com>, kcat <kcattxf…@sbcglobal.net> wrote >I hadn’t posted about this here yet.
I’m sorry – life always seems to hand you the shitty end of the stick. [[[[[KC]]]]] — Andy [Chair, N E Lupus Group] See http://www.northeastlupus.org.uk for more!
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KC…. I too am very sorry for your loss. There seems to have been a number of deaths around Christmas this year. We lost a family member too the Monday before Christmas. He was like an uncle to me. His memorial service is tomorrow and I cannot go…. he has been cremated. It is so very hard to lose loved one; especially during the holidays. God bless. Nettie "Sharon" <noway…@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:bt1knl$2d9qi$1@ID-163463.news.uni-berlin.de… > kcat wrote: > > I hadn’t posted about this here yet. > > > > i’m still not sure how much to say. > > > > I lost a friend this past Boxing day. But only found out about it 3 > > days later. > > > > Please send prayers, light candles, send good thoughts to the friends > > and family of my friend Ian. > > > > my heart is breaking and I’m in and out of rational behavior. > > (((((((((((KC))))))))))) > > I’m so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you both were very close. > > Prayers for Ian and all his loved ones. > > Hugs for you, > -Sharon > > — > "Don’t make me come down there…" > -God
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